Announcements
Volunteer at TASK
HPC would like to resume dining room prep work and meal service at TASK. If you are interested and available on Friday, September 24th from 9:30 AM -1:00 PM or would like more information, please contact Joanne Tonkin by email (joannemdtonkin@gmail.com) or phone / text (908-334-8324) by Tuesday, September 21st. Only six volunteers total are allowed per day. All volunteers must show proof of COVID vaccination.
Summer Session Updates
Session met in June, took a break in July, and resumed regular meetings again in August. As always, there has been much to discuss and much to decide. Here is a short summary of what Session has been up to:
Finalized the new Ministry and Mission Structure for the church. Much of the hard work on this was done by the ministries themselves and by our extraordinarily dedicated staff. Click here to learn more about this new structure and click here for a closer look at our new Generosity Ministry.
Approved the installation of a new expanded fence at the Manse. This is now in place.
Continued to review and monitor the church health and safety policies for worship and use of our buildings. This has included approving protocols for resuming in-person choir rehearsals, establishing masking policies for the Rummage Sale, and endorsing revised protocols for our Boy Scout Troop.
Accepted two dedicated gifts, each of $10,000. One will help provide special needs/benevolence support and the other is from Hillsborough Presbyterian Church and is for the work of the Hopewell Youth Collective.
Appointed Katie Rosensen as Children's Ministry Lead, which is a temporary role to help launch our Godly Play program and Sunday Morning Wisdom & Wonder for kids.
Adjusted Lucy Ducko’s terms of employment to make more money available for her retirement plan.
Authorized a donation of $3500 to our supported mission Friends for Health in Haiti, who are dealing with the aftermath of the severe earthquake and tropical storm there.
Heard an update from Michael Mills of the Sanctuary Task Force on the developing proposals to improve our worship space.
Session is also prayerfully seeking ways in which we can build trust with each other and the community, and how we can be a more invitational church.
Your Serving Elders are:
Bonnie Altieri (2024), Liz Blankstein (2022), Becky Ludeke (2024), Doug McCleery (2023), Barbara Pauley (2023), Molly Peterson (2023), Doug Robbins (2022), Sandy Sherrard (2024), Pat Swartz (2022).
Moderator: Pastor Melissa Martin
Clerk of Session: Ian Burrow
Ian Burrow
Clerk of Session
Generosity Committee
As we continue our mission to love like Jesus, the Generosity Ministry is a newly formed committee that has been charged by the Session to provide guidance in dispensing HPC funds to support our relationship with God as well as each other and the community. These relationships will be strengthened by focusing on being an “invitational” church.
The task of this committee is two fold:
Recommendations will be made to the Session by this committee regarding the dispensing of the 11% tithe from the church income.
It will also make recommendations regarding the distribution of monies from the Endowment Fund which was formed by the generous Sharipen gift.
Those serving on this committee are:
Pat Swartz (Session Rep)
Dick Scheetz (Deacon Rep)
Jamie Sapoch (Sharipen Task Force Rep)
Bev Mills
Joe Bevis
Ruth Mortensen
This is such a wonderful time in the life of our church to show are love to those in need with the generous financial resources we have been given. Sure to come up in our meetings over the course of the next months are our many mission partners. Organizations like: Friends for Health in Haiti, who needs help to provide health services, as countries such as Haiti are struggling having recently experienced an earthquake followed by a tropical storm. Citizens here in our own country depend upon others to provide food, clothing and shelter in times of disaster. The Presbyterian Disaster Relief Fund lends a helping hand and needs assistance to do so. Many women suffer domestic violence and abuse and survive only because of organizations such as Womanspace. Those who suffer with mental illness are supported by the National Alliance on Mental Health.
There is so much help HPC can provide. We can put our mission to love like Jesus into action. This is truly an amazing moment in the life of our church!
Ruth Mortensen
Generosity Committee
Youth: Tubing on the Delaware
The youth are going tubing!
Save the date! We’re going tubing August 22 after worship.
Hopewell Council of Churches VBS at Home: Compassion Camp
What’s Compassion Camp?
“Compassion Camp” is taking the place of this year’s traditional in-person “Vacation Bible School” by the Hopewell Council of Churches. Compassion Camp is an at-home/virtual camp designed to help us follow God and figure out what it means to have compassion for others, ourselves, and the world—even and especially in the midst of a pandemic as well as the racial and political tension in our country and world.
What does at-home/virtual camp actually entail?
While at-home/virtual learning is new to us too, the Hopewell Council of Churches is providing each family that signs up with two components:
Daily email: July 19-23 you will receive videos, PDFs of coloring sheets, and and example pictures of activities in your email inbox.
At-home-packet: For those who would like a binder with instructions and supply, we will deliver or mail a packet to you. (It will also include a few extra goodies!)
Both of these will contain…
Daily Story: Each day of will center around a story from the Bible. These stories will be told by the pastors of Hopewell. While there will be a video, sometimes it’s good to act stories out. The daily story printout will include ways you can embody the story at home. These stories include: “The Prodigal Son,” the story of Ruth & Naomi, & Jesus healing the man who was paralyzed.
Daily Song Video:
Mr. Charlie will teach a song on each day of the week. You will get a video of each song in your email every morning. There is also sheet music available for those who want to learn the music as a family.
Compassion in Action Activities:
Compassion in Action actives help us think creatively about sharing compassion. These simple, small, tangible acts help us express God’s deep compassion for each other, ourselves, and the world. These activities include: making a centerpiece for your family table, sending mail to people who need love, and planting “seeds of change.”
Create & Play Activities:
Each day features a few craft opportunities, games, and coloring pages. These are designed to help us practice our compassion skills and have fun. Examples include, a “Feelings Matching Game,” daily prayer coloring sheets, instructions for a “kindness hug” made out of paper and string to send to someone who needs a reminder of God’s love.
Movement Activity
The daily email will include a video from Miss Barb who will take us through movement practices to help us connect our wiggly bodies, busy minds, and spirits to God. She will show us how to focus our breathing alongside some basic yoga poses to embody the themes of Compassion Camp.
Who is invited to join? While this camp is geared toward both preschool-aged children and K-5th graders, it is extremely flexible, adaptable, and fun for the entire family—maybe older siblings or even the “young-at-heart.” (All you need is a willing heart and a “family guide” who can read and navigate email.)
Open to all — not just the Hopewell Community!
Summer Book Study with Student Pastor Ryan
You are invited to join us for a Summer Book Study. We will read and discuss “INSPIRED: Slaying Giants, Walking on Water, and Loving the Bible Again” by Rachel Held Evans.
This Hybrid Zoom/In-person Book Group will meet on Tuesdays from 4-5 PM, starting July 20. If you are interested in this group, please contact the church office.
If you need help obtaining a copy of this book, don’t hesitate to reach out to the church office.
Restructuring Ministries
In the last year, not only has Session led the congregation in considering the mission God has called us to, but Session has been thinking carefully about “how” we go about achieving that mission. Part of that is determining a “focus” action for each program year (the 2021-22 focus is coming soon!) and part of that is analyzing the ways our church is set up to help us achieve the mission.
As Session did this analysis we also took into account some feedback received from our ministries. Feedback like…
‘Training new leaders and transitioning leadership with ministry committees can be difficult.’
‘Sometimes we leave ministry work feeling burnt out.’
‘We aren’t always sure what’s going on; communication could be better.’
On top of that, in this last year we have learned that there are a few areas where we want to dedicate more focus. These include:
Stewardship
Investment
Congregational/Community/Pastoral Care
Justice & Service
To respond to the feedback we received and to provide for the areas listed above, Session worked with Pastor Melissa to make two changes: 1) to provide resources for ministries to help them plan and communicate; 2) to change the ministries and their responsibilities to cover all the responsibilities listed above. The following is a “quick sheet” listing each of the ministries, their responsibilities, and a contact person (click the image for a downloadable PDF). For a summary of major changes, see below.
Changes include:
Splitting “Finances” from “Facilities,” making Financial Stewardship and Buildings & Grounds.
Putting Finance with Investments and Stewardship to make Financial Stewardship. Going forward this will be a ministry of people called by Session to serve 3 year terms.
Creating Generosity to oversee (1) mission giving and (2) dispersement of income from the investment made as a result of the Sharipen Bequest. Going forward this will be a ministry of people called by Session to serve 3 year terms.
Supporting the Deacons as they lead us in congregational and individual community care through more 1-on-1 care (much like Stephen Ministers) and through Benevolence/Special Needs Financial Support, etc.
Continuing the work of “Engaging in Justice & Service” as Justice & Service, to communicate and provide opportunities to share the love of God with our community.
As we move to this structure, everyone is encouraged to prayerfully consider if God is calling them to serve on one of the programming ministries. As we make these changes for the 2021-22 program year, the church leadership looks forward to your support in giving this new thing a try and your feedback.
Contribute a Book to the CCPS Library
Creative Connections Play School is hoping that the congregation would enjoy helping to build their library. They have some favorite authors and have compiled a list of titles by these authors that they do not yet own. See below for a complete list. To donate a book, contact Director, Liz Blankstein.
Harold's Treasure Hunt by Crockett Johnson
Will Spring Be Early or Will Spring Be Late by Crockett Johnson
Time For Spring by Crockett Johnson
A Picture For Harold's Room by Crockett Johnson
Scaredy Squirrel by Melanie Watt
Scaredy Squirrel at Night by Melanie Watt
Scaredy Squirrel Has a Birthday Party by Melanie Watt
Scaredy Squirrel Goes Camping by Melanie Watt
Bear Says Thanks by Karma Wilson
Bear's Loose Tooth by Karma Wilson
Bear's New Friend by Karma Wilson
Bear Sees Colors by Karma Wilson
A Big Guy Took My Ball by Mo Willems
Let's Go For a Drive by Mo Williams
Waiting Is Not Easy by Mo Willems
2020-2021 Annual Report
Take a few moments and read our Annual Report and Financial Appendix.
Welcome Ryan MacLean!
My name is Ryan MacLean and I am originally from Sacramento, California but moved to New Jersey last August with my wife Abigail to attend Princeton Theological Seminary. I have grown up in the PCUSA but have been blessed to spend significant time with friends from other Christian traditions. I have been involved in various ministries for most of my life, doing everything from leading white water river rafting trips at summer camp to working with low-income communities in a Christian community center, as well as traditional church ministry. I love the outdoors, bread baking, craft coffee, and Old Testament studies, so please feel free to ask me about any of those things or anything else that may come to mind. I am excited to get to know and be a part of the community of Hopewell Presbyterian Church and look forward to meeting you (virtually or in-person) soon!
Rummage Sale!
SAVE THE DATE
AND PLAN TO JOIN THE FUN!
2021 RUMMAGE SALE
DONATIONS: September 12 - 15 SALE: September 16 - 18
It's time once again to go through your closets for all that unwanted clutter. We accept clean clothing in good condition, books, jewelry, toys, household items and small appliances in good working order. We do NOT accept shoes, plastic cups and bottles with advertising logos, magazines, textbooks, encyclopedias, computer monitors, computers, typewriters, mattresses or large appliances. Also, please start saving plastic and paper bags.
NO LARGE FURNITURE WILL BE ACCEPTED. If you have any questions regarding furniture or any other items, please call Carol Krystek (609)-577-8819 or Pat Swartz (609-651-6029).
DONATIONS may be dropped off at the church beginning Sunday, September 12 after 3:00 pm (no sooner, please!) through noon on Wednesday, September 15. Please help out the sorters by bringing your clothing, toys and household items in separate bags or boxes. Please note, when you bring in your donations, you will be responsible for dropping them off in the area that they will be sold (for example, toys in the toy room). Volunteers will be there to help out those that need it.
VOLUNTEERS, PLEASE! Many volunteers are needed to make this sale a success every year. If you can't help during the week, please consider coming Sunday afternoon to set up clothes racks and tables, or sign up for Saturday afternoon after the sale to be part of the clean-up crew. During the week we need people to make soups and desserts for our hard workers. Come Monday through Wednesday to help sort and arrange donations. During the sale, we need baggers, checkers, and reorganizers -- and of course, shoppers too! SIGNUP IN FELLOWSHIP HALL.
Please consider getting involved in this important church wide event. Spread the word in the community, at school, or work so that we will have lots of customers during the sale.
Session News and Actions, May 2021
Session met twice in the last month. On May16th we met in the back yard of the manse to meet with seven individuals who wish to become active members of Hopewell Presbyterian Church. Session voted enthusiastically to welcome Shari Adair, Joseph Bevis, Chris Cox, David Denito, Michele Immordino, Tori Paquette, David Reynolds as members. David’s 5 year-old son Ricky is also welcomed as a baptized member.
The May 26th regular (or stated) meeting was held in the somewhat warm environment of the Choir Room, with everyone masked and distanced.
Providing for Worship in a Pandemic.
In response to the steadily improving situation, Session voted to modify worship protocols again. On and after June 20th masks will still be required indoors for the time being. Indoor seating will be “self-selected” from the available rows. Masked singing is permitted. Other detailed changes were made to the outdoor service protocols and to the use policies for the buildings and staff.
Reorganizing our Ministries
Session continued the work of reorganizing our ministries, working on final details. Full details will be provided when this is complete.
Caring for and Improving Our Facilities
· Approved $28,500 to hire architect Eric Holterman of Holt Morgan Russell to produce concept, schematics design work, drawings and cost estimates for the sanctuary.
· Approved $12,000 for a heat pump and air conditioning unit to cool the library, second floor choir room, and the large and small conference rooms on the first floor.
Community
· Met with confirmation candidate Josie Blankstein and her mentor Jennifer Megaffin. Session heard and enthusiastically approved Josie’s faith statement and welcomed her as a full and active member of the church
· Received and discussed the Report “HPC Young Adult Survey Results” prepared by Elder Molly Person and Doug Peterson. This presents and analyses the results of a survey of 20 young-adults who grew up in HPC and were asked about their current t perceptions of faith, “Church”, and HPC. It has much to teach us.
· Received and approved the slate of New Officers presented by the Nominating Committee. These will be presented at the Annual Meeting on June 13th.
· Recognized the service of Elders Stan Krystek. Dick Scheetz and Todd Sutton, who are rotating off Session.
· Determined to increase the rent for our 86/88 West Broad Street properties.
· Adopted a 2021-22 budget.
Staff for the Church’s Mission and Ministry
· Approved the summer intern job description and approved hiring a summer intern at a cost of $1,350.
· Approved a sick leave policy which conforms to NJ requirements.
Ian Burrow
Clerk of Session
Welcome Deborah Jodrey!
Hello Hopewell friends! My name is Deborah Jodrey and I am so excited to be joining the Hopewell Presbyterian Church family and to begin working in the Hopewell community. My spouse Lindsey and I have lived in Hopewell with our three pups, Abbot, Belle, and Marvel for almost exactly one year. We moved here after I graduated from Princeton Theological Seminary and have loved taking walks with our pups through town and enjoying delicious food at Nomad Pizza and Aunt Chubby’s.
I love playing board games, music, and sports; watching the newest Marvel Universe movie and football; traveling into NYC for a musical; going on hikes; and spending time around a fire with friends and family.
I look forward to collaborating with Pastor Melissa and the other staff and leaders at HPC, and am excited to continue to care for and celebrate the youth and children who are such a vibrant part of this congregation.
I see my role in the faith formation of young people beginning by listening to young people themselves. I have already heard our young people in Hopewell articulate their desire for mental health support, relationships with a trustworthy adult s, and guidance as they navigate the pressures to achieve in school and their hope to make a difference in the community. For me, caring about the full person is vital, and faith formation begins by coming alongside each young person in the day-to-day and continues in the regular conversations that emerge, in the moments of rest and time off, and in the authentic relationships with one another, God, and the community.
When I was a teenager, I craved a space where I could bring my full self along with all my questions, doubts, and interests; a space where I was surrounding by peers that I counted on and an adult I could trust. As the Director of Youth Outreach, my hope is to cultivate a safe place where the young people in this community feel a sense of belonging, a place where they can fully be themselves—questions, answers, doubts and all—a place where they feel empowered, and a place where they feel cared for and supported. This will include a focus on developing relationships, nurturing spiritual practices and theological reflection, and creating meaningful opportunities to serve the community."
I am also really looking forward to getting to know the young people and families throughout Hopewell and to work with them to create the Hopewell Youth Collective—a space where we can ask questions about faith, find support, build relationships, serve the community, and have fun and laugh a little along the way.
Watch below to hear Josie B. interview Deborah. Click here to see Director of Youth Outreach Job Description.
Slate of New Officers
Session Class of 2024
Bonnie Altieri
Becky Ludeke
Sandy Sherrard
Deacons Class of 2024
Sue Armington
Laurie Bleickardt
Sherry Gesregan
Kathie Sutton
Deacon Class of 2022
Dick Scheetz
Nominating Committee Class of 2024
Lois Grieves
Special thanks to all those completing faithful service.
Elders: Stan Krystek, Dick Scheetz, and Todd Sutton
Deacons: Anne Hayton, Anne Scheier, Bev Mills, Ruth Mortensen, Haley Yingling and Paige Yingling
Nominating Committee: Sandy Ogg
Get to know our 2021 New Members Class!
Michele Immordino
My name is Michele Immordino and I live in Hopewell Township with my husband Vince and my two college aged children, Julia and Matthew. I am a school librarian at a small K-3 elementary school in Lawrence Township. I have been there for 17 years. I love teaching and literature and couldn't imagine having any other career. I found Hopewell Presbyterian Church last year during Lent. I was participating in the Soup and Study with the Hopewell Council of Churches and heard Pastor Melissa preach on the first night. The second Wednesday we talked during dinner and the third Wednesday we talked again at Hopewell Presbyterian. And then everything closed because of the pandemic. Being at home gave me hours and hours of time to think and meditate about my spiritual life. I reached out to Pastor Melissa with my thoughts and questions and she immediately got back to me. We exchanged emails and talked outside and I met Barb Pauley and participated in a book club. I realized that Hopewell Presbyterian was the kind of community I had been searching for. I am so grateful that God sent me in this direction. I don't really have a favorite Bible verse as I've never really read or studied the Bible. I hope that will change as I grow and learn from everyone at HPC. I feel so welcomed even though I have only been in the church twice: once last March and once to give blood! I'm looking forward to being together and meeting everyone that I have been seeing on zoom! From what I can tell, this is a very special community.
Celebrate our 50+ Year Members!
Clara Blackwell 4/12/53
Anne Scheier 4/12/53
Robert & Barbara Peterson 4/4/54
Richard & Anna Hall 10/3/54
Shirley Novobilsky 4/13/58
Joyce Homan 4/5/59
Frank Homan 4/3/60
Elsie Muentener 10/2/60
Doug Robbins 4/18/65
Tom Fillebrown 6/20/65
Lois Grieves 12/19/65
Kay Richards 10/16/66
Nancy Treible 11/9/69
For each of the weeks of this next sermon series titled "Church People," we will not only explore the "church people" that we find in the book of Acts, we will also learn from the "church people" connected to Hopewell Presbyterian. This will include learning from a few of our 50+ Year members!
Growing Mission and Gardens
Back in the fall, the Engaging in Justice and Service ministry surveyed the congregation and learned that two of the areas the congregation feels called to include “creation care” and “poverty.” For the last few months and inspired by the Sharipen Bequest, they have developed partnerships and opportunities for us learn more about these issues. Reflecting on these, Molly Peterson shares:
The more I have come to understand the Earth, the more connected I feel to everything on it. Every seed planted in the soil is intimate with everything from cows to global poverty…. I want nothing more than to understand, as to do my part to help the world thrive.
Community Partners
Essential to this work is the work of building connections and assessing need. So many in Hopewell and the surrounding region are tackling issues of food insecurity. That being said a growing edge for many of these intiatives is fresh food. Outreach partners like the Chubby’s Project are eager to get fresh fruits and vegetables to share with those they feed on a regular basis. Learning more about this need, EJS got connected with the work of the Saint Michaels Community Garden. If you are looking for a way to care for God’s creation in celebration of Earth Day, here’s how we can show up for our community partners at Saint Michaels this week:
Seedling Planting at Saint Mike’s: Weather permitting, Saturday, April 24 at 8:30AM, Corrine Egner will be leading a group of volunteers as they plant onion bulbs, kale, broccoli, and spinach. To join, email corrine7@me.com.
Other partnerships they have developed in this process include but are not limited to Princeton Theological Seminary’s Farminary and ISLES, specifically their work with Jones Farm which is located in the Ewing Department of Corrections.
HPC Gardens
To continue this conversation and create opportunities for service, EJS in conjunction with the Finance & Faclities has created three small raised garden beds. The produce grown in these beds will be used to create community with our neighbors, to stock the little pantry, and will be donated to the Chubby’s Project. While the actual produce is an important component to these beds, these gardens will also “produce an opportunity” for further learning about creation care and hunger. Reflecting on creation care, Joanne Tonkin shared
We have been given a beautiful home and have been entrusted to be its stewards. Sadly, we often abuse our home in careless and selfish acts. To achieve creation justice, we must first acknowledge that we share this home with all creatures great and small. We must then accept our responsibility to help re-establish a healthy climate and ensure that there is equitable access to clean air, clean water, and nutrient-rich food for ALL. As it says in Psalm 104: “Send forth your Spirit, O Lord, and renew the face of the earth.” (Psalm 104:30)
To plant the gardens and to celebrate the beginning of this work together EJS and F&F are hosting a Spring Garden Day on May 8. Mark your calendars to come for a morning devotion, to plant some seedlings, and to help pull weeds and mulch the church grounds.
As you consider how God is calling you to care for creation, here’s a prayer that Becky Ludeke shares with you. It is one she learned as a child:
God, we thank you for your world
For rest and home and all things good,
For wind and rain and sun above
But most of all for those we love.
Reflecting on this Becky explains, “Even at my young age, I somehow realized it was important for us to be good stewards of our environment and certainly to take care of those we love (and those we don't love or know).”
The leadership looks forward to the ways that this work with community partners, the gardens, and one another will help us love like Jesus!
Youth Sunday Recap
Youth Sunday was a wonderful testimony to the way God is at work in and through the young people of Hopewell Presbyterian. The service included: liturgy leadership from Student Pastor Katie, Greg B. and Tiernan B., a prayer written by Abby B., mini sermons from Christopher Rice & Haley Yingling, a poem written by Paige Yingling, a charge from Lexi, Emily, and Logan Dendis, and the announcement of a Hopewell Youth Collective from Josie B. and Erica R.
Prayer from Abby B.
Heavenly Father, As we celebrate the miracles of spring, we yearn for the pandemic to end. We pray your blessings on all the people who have perished during the pandemic and we hope recovery for those grieving and suffering from COVID-19. We know you have a plan for us Lord, but we ask you humbly for wholeness during these times of uncertainty. We dream of scheduling events that aren’t contingent on a virus, and we pray for those relationships strained by distance. We ask for patience and encouragement to maintain social distancing, to wear masks and be responsible for our neighbor’s health. We thank you that the vaccine will become eligible for more people in NJ beginning tomorrow and we pray for those who may not have access to it. We show our thanks towards all the frontline workers who constantly fight to bring this sense of normality back into our lives.
We also thank you for everyone who helps make life easier in these times of troubles, especially teachers, caregivers, healthcare workers, and restaurant workers. We pray for each and every student, especially college students and high school seniors who have been forced to miss out on so much in this last year. We pray for those battling other diseases like cancer and their families and for those with feelings that they don’t matter because they don’t look the same or believe the same beliefs as we do. To you God, we know we are all deemed essential. We crave inclusion and an end to violence. Please be with the families and victims of any violent crime and open our hearts to reasonable policies that can protect innocent lives. We pray for those suffering from natural disasters and pray that we can all work collectively to help our planet.
We pray for our church dear Lord. We pray for each member of our Congregation. Let us each find peace here and a rich nurturing of our faith. Please bless the church staff and church leaders as they guide us through the upcoming planning season. We thank you for our Youth Group, especially the work of Katie, Laura and Doug.
Poem from Paige Y. - Reflecting on “loving God” as expressed in Mark 12:28-34
Sermon from Haley Y. - Reflecting on “loving neighbor” as expressed in Mark 12:28-34
I’d like you all to take a moment and think about something you have done in the last week, last month, or even last year for someone besides yourself… Maybe you thought of sharing your musical talents with the congregation every Sunday or occasionally lending your time at Aunt Chubby’s luncheonette. Maybe you thought of taking on the responsibility of stocking the small food pantry that sits outside the front of the church when you notice it is empty or even simply sending a homemade card to someone that says, “I’m thinking of you.” All of these actions I just mentioned and the many more I did not are great examples of how we, as Christians, love our neighbors.
Loving our neighbors is the second most important commandment according to Jesus. God first loved us and in doing so teaches us how to love one another too. I think it is fairly safe to say that many of us have learned to do this much better through the teachings of Jesus Christ, which we live by. I can say for certain that this has definitely been true for me along my own faith journey.
Today’s fast paced, social media and technology-filled society may make loving our neighbors more difficult. More and more children are replacing playtime outside with others with video games sometimes alone in their homes. Younger generations are more inclined to text rather than make a phone call. And many adults these days probably send far more texts and emails because it’s often quicker and easier than picking up the phone to speak to another person. Unfortunately, an increase in technology has oftentimes caused a decrease in human interaction and therefore a loss of more personal forms of communication. Facial expressions have turned into emojis and unique voices have become a string of words on a computer screen. When we do encounter people face to face, we may unintentionally come across as insincere instead of friendly because we are out of practice. Every single one of us, including myself, has probably been guilty of this at one time or another.
One of the reasons I love coming to church so much is because I am surrounded by people that exude warmth, kindness, and caring attitudes. This is a space where I feel safe to freely express myself and a place where I belong. It’s a place where I feel comfortable to grow, learn how to be a better version of myself, and most importantly love and care for others. I have been able to love and care for members of this congregation as well as help my neighbors in Hopewell and beyond through youth group, mission trips, and my duties as a Deacon of Hopewell Presbyterian Church. All of these opportunities and experiences have helped shape me to be a loving and caring Christian for which I am very grateful.
As we are regularly reminded, three of the ways we can spread the love of God to our neighbors is by sharing our time, talents, and treasures. By doing so, we can hopefully inspire our neighbors to share theirs and then inspire their neighbors to do the same. This ongoing action of sharing what has been shared with us reminds me of the movie “Pay It Forward”, which is a really inspirational movie and one that I highly recommend for those who haven’t seen it before. Trevor McKinney shows us that one action, no matter how small, can have exponential impacts. His simple proposition of showing an act of kindness to three people who then each show an act of kindness to three more people grew into a national movement. If we can make the effort to love our neighbors just as God loves every single one of us, then maybe our society can become more connected, more kind, more just and a more welcoming place for everyone.
Sermon from Christopher R. - Reflecting on “loving neighbor” as expressed in Mark 12:28-34
So, when Pastor Melissa asked me to talk about love, I was all for it. Even though I am maybe a quarter of the age of some people in the congregation, I have seen so much love in my life. To start, my mom… the most important woman in my life, she is one of the most loving people in my life. And she learned it from her parents, who (as of today) have been married 50 years! My mom has taught me so much about love. One of her famous lines, “ I might not like what you’re doing, but I still love you”, I mean yeah, maybe she doesn’t have a choice, because I am family or something like that. But I have learned to love someone unconditionally. I feel like more people in this world need that, to show love towards others.
For those of those who might not know, we are a part of Gen Z. In general, this generation is full of love, and acceptance. To us, everyone is loved for all of who they are, including their different color skin, sexuality, or different views. We will make that known, especially recently. More people are making themselves seen. People who are part of the LGTBQ+ community are making their voices heard, and I like that my generation doesn’t seem to blink twice.
A few years ago, one of my close friends came out to me as gay. Besides the fact that I kinda already knew, he knew that I would love him no matter what, and that him being gay didn’t change anything. There was one thing that he was scared of: he was terrified to come out to his parents, and the night that he did, he texted his mom, and broke down in tears. I was just there to listen, reminding him that everything was going to be okay. I did my best to make a safe space for him to say whatever he wanted, reminding him that he was loved. He was not doin too hot and he was terrified to go home, so we came up with a sort of game plan, and I stayed on the phone with him until he was comfortable hanging up. But I think that we can all take something from these experiences. We all need to know that we are loved.
As said in Mark 12:29, and I’m sure all of you have heard this countless times, is to “Love your neighbor as thyself.” This means to love everyone, who God created them to be and what they believe in.
I think we all need to hear the thing Jesus says to us, which is: “I will love you for who you are, and nothing will change that.”